I feel like this at least 10 times a day and on Wednesdays after my link party even more. What happens is that I get an awesome comment so I go to reply to the comment and I can’t. The problem? The blogger who left the comment has their email, probably unknowingly so, hidden. They are what is called a no-reply blogger. If this is by choice by all means keep it that way but I know for many of you who are trying to grow your blogs probably don’t realize that you are closing off potential connections.
About 50% of all people who comment on my blog are no-reply bloggers. Are you one? If you haven’t taken the time to change your default settings you probably are.
I’ve noticed that every time I’ve had quality interactions with bloggers (especially bigger bloggers) it’s been through email. Often times I leave a comment and they reply to me directly through email and it’s easy and natural to have a back and forth. For me I rarely have time when a comment appears in my inbox to my blog, open the comments page, clicking on the commentator’s ID, click on their blog, search for an email or leave a totally unrelated comment on a random post because there is no where else. That’s way too hard. If it’s a direct question I try to make the time to answer it but I’m not going to lie sometimes in my business I forget even though I have full intentions of doing so.
In short, if you make your email visible you make life easier for all of us and you’ll probably start making more connections with other bloggers which is totally fun. It’s super easy to do, and if you’re worried about spam, don’t. I have not had a problem with that at all.
First what you want to do is sign in and open your dashboard on blogger. Look in the upper right hand corner and click on your name.
On the pop up that opens click on “Blogger profile”
Find the box that says “Show my email address” and make sure it’s checked. Easy right? Okay and as much as I love love love it when you pin my posts, don’t just pin this to deal with later. Just do it now, it takes less than a minute.
update: I thought about this after reading a few of the comments QUESTION: Do you think we should tell NRB if we have time? I wasn’t sure if that should be reserved to “real friends”. I feel like there’s a few stages 1. strangers 2. have commented multiple times and 3. real friends . What do you guys think, tell or just let the real friends tell?
Desire Empire says
I have only just changed this about a week ago. I tweeted this as it’s great to be able to mail peeps easily.
Carolyn
marissa | Rae Gun Ramblings says
So nice right! Thanks for sharing it :)
Desire Empire says
Wow I got your email. How exciting.
Carolyn
Our Delightful Home says
I totally understand how you feel. Thank you for posting this.
Mrs. Delightful
http://www.ourdelightfulhome.blogspot.com
Brooke says
Yes seriously! I probably draft out a nice and long response to a comment once or twice a week, only to realize they’re a no-reply commenter. And I love that picture :)
Stone Cottage Adventures says
What a wonderful photo! I was a “No Reply” but had no idea. Sweet Danni at Siloh Hill Farm told me. (A REAL friend will tell you!) So, I’m all fixed now! YAY! -Marci @ Stone Cottage Adventures
SarahJane Miller says
I finally figured this out last night! The problem for me was that i was on google + profile and I couldn’t figure out how to change it. So I had to revert everything back to a blogger profile and it took forever to figure it out. But I finally did :) Thanks for posting the tutorial for others too
Debra says
I am dying laughing over your photo. You crack me up. :)
marissa | Rae Gun Ramblings says
Glad you guys appreciate my rediculous picture.
QUESTION: do you think we should tell NRB if we have time? I wasn’t sure if that should be reserved to “real friends”. I feel like there’s a few stages 1. strangers 2. have commented multiple times and 3. real friends . What do you guys think, tell or just let the real friends tell?
marissa | Rae Gun Ramblings says
brooke so true! I’ve finally started checking before I even begin a reply!
Stella Star Cordova says
Thank you so much for posting this!
I was one who didn’t have my email showing, and I had no clue!
Btw, I also love the picture. You crack me up. I love you sense of humor so much!
Kassi Mortensen says
I say real friends, commentors and leave the random ones. You’ve gotta stop somewhere. :)
marissa | Rae Gun Ramblings says
yeah that’s what I think I was leaning to also!
glad it helped stella
Carissa Rasmussen says
I have google + too and this tutorial doesn’t work for those profiles. Do you usually reply on your comments page?
marissa | Rae Gun Ramblings says
Carissa there should be a way to switch it from going to your google+ page to your blogger profile page instead (if you want to) when I googled it it only showed how to do the other way around and I didn’t want to click on it in case I couldn’t figure out how to switch it back.
I usually reply to comments directly through email when I can but when I can’t and/or I think other people will benefit besides the original commentator I reply in the comments page.
thethinkingcloset says
Found you through Tip Junkie! As a new-ish blogger, I appreciate hearing this conversation. It does make such a difference to be able to communicate further with a commenter. Thx for articulating your argument so clearly.
nicolette {momnivores dilemma} says
one of my biggest pet peeves. ever.
we should start a “welcome to bloggerhood” series.
step one: make sure you can be replied to!
xoxo
n
Claudine from CondensedLoveHome says
LOL! I am going to check if I am one of those!
Thank you!
Michele @ The Nest at Finch Rest says
SO GLAD you wrote this and I sure hope it helps.
I HATE it when we can’t reply to a sweet sincere comment.
You have made this understandable and clear for them, thanks.
Nichole says
I’m new to your blog (and new to blogging in general)! Thanks for the heads up with this issue. I didn’t realize it was so prevalent.
Doreen@househoneys says
You really hit home with this one! Like you, I look to see what kind of comment structure a blogger has before I take the time to type out my reply. Thanks for posting!
marissa | Rae Gun Ramblings says
I wish I had figured out the checking much sooner. I can’t tell how many times I typed out a super long response before I realized they’d never see it :(
thanks for the encouragement!
BY all means lets all get rid of that blasted captca, it’s the bane of my commenting existence haha!
Bonny Yokeley says
Well, I don’t know if I am one, but I will be sure to follow your instructions and see. Then I’ll fix it if necessary because I certainly want people to be able to reply to my comments. :)
Thanks,
Bonny @ thedomesticatedprincess.com
Michelle G says
Hey! Thanks! I never knew! Here I thought maybe no one was reading what I was commenting on…:) lol
Thank you for the quick run through (including pics!!yay!!)
Kaysi says
I’m glad you posted this I’ve been getting a lot of those lately and I hate it when I can’t answer a question
Kaysi says
I’m glad you posted this I’ve been getting a lot of those lately and I hate it when I can’t answer a question
Laura says
hahahahaha I love this picture! Good tip
Laura from LifeWeLive4
Marigold Haske says
I changed mine.
BUT! If you set your comments to “Embedded” instead of this pop-up window, Blogger now supports threaded comments. So you can reply directly to a commenter within your comments. In Blogger>Settings>Posts and Comments>Comments:
Set Comment Location to Embedded.
With A Blast says
I was fine until I linked my G+ to my blog, and also, if not for a caring bloggy friend, I would have thought all is still okay :-( but I unknowingly then became a no-reply ! Fortunately, I fixed that and the only (tiny) drawback is that I now have to manually link my posts to G+ – takes all of 2 minutes ;-)I hope everyone will take a minute to check, thanks for the post!
Christine says
AMEN!! Thank you Marissa!!!
Thanks so much for sharing this at The DIY Dreamer.. From Dream To Reality!
Jennifer Juniper says
Amen, sister! It is the single most frustrating thing about blogging! And lately the word verification is such a low quality photo to reproduce I can’t even decipher it!
Pint Sized Baker says
I hear ya. If someone asks a question, I’ll still leave an answer. You never know if they will return OR if someone else has the same question.
Also, I have changed my profile over to Google+, do you know how to check it there? I get responses to post, but I think that’s because they use a different comment service. Hmmm….
Amy says
Very important post…Only few days ago,I changed my settings.Now I enjoy replies from other fellow bloggers.Actually it is totally interesting to read a reply email…
Have a great day!!
Amy-Food Corner
http://foodssrilanka.blogspot.sg/
Danni Baird @ Silo Hill Farm says
Thank you! Thank You! I seriously think bloggers everywhere are thanking you. I hate not being able to reply to a blogger and when I have time, I do try to track them down and let them know, but I don’t always have time. Can I please send them the link to this post in the future?
Kim @ Too Much Time says
You are so funny! This is awesome and thanks for sharing. I also hate when I write a nice long reply and then I get the darn word verification and I try it once…get it wrong, try it again…can’t read it….try it again….get it wrong….and then I just give up and a nice comment and connection is lost forever:(
xxx
Kim
Sue Boyer says
Thank you for the info. I didn’t know there was that kind of problem.
Miranda @ Pressing On says
I have this same problem and it’s really frustrating. I’m going to link this post up at my blog because I really want my readers to get a response from me since they took the time to comment.
I’ve had a note on my comments area about them changing their no reply @ blogger, but it hasn’t seemed to help yet. Thanks for a great post!
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pinkoddy says
Doesn’t it mean you get more e-mail comments and less on your blog comments?
LOL I’d better go look into changing mine